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So, you’ve been dating for a while now. Things have been going great. You’ve laughed together. You’ve had some lengthy conversations. You have plenty in common. You’re both very attracted to each other. You think the world of each other.
And yet— something isn’t clicking. You just can’t put your finger on what’s wrong. On paper it’s a match made in heaven. Still, something is just not right. What you may be missing is spiritual connection.
Most of our relationships are not that deep, even if they may appear to be. For example, we may love our blood relatives — our parents or our children — very, very much, but still not necessarily be bonded at the level of the soul. We can share a lot of history with other human beings and still not be connected at the deepest level. We can have lovers with whom we’ve shared passion and profound intimacy and the sense of a connection that at least felt as if nothing could be deeper — and then, for one reason or another, drift apart. Then, if we meet our former lover years later, we may have the strange and sometimes disturbing sensation of there being literally no connection any more.
How can such a thing be? How can we love another so deeply and then find that love and connection to be gone, nowhere to be found? I believe it’s because the connection wasn’t at the level of the soul.
What Is Spiritual Connection?
Everyone has a “perfect match” checklist, just like the kind they ask you to fill out for a dating service. In theory, the more of each other’s boxes you can tick off, the more well suited you are for each other. But what works in theory doesn’t always work when put into practice.
A spiritual connection can happen with more of those boxes ticked off, but it’s never a guarantee. It goes deeper than your surface needs or earthly desires. A spiritual connection is when you’re souls are attracted to each other and are in sync.
Two people who have a spiritual connection are not just properly aligned, like puzzle pieces that fit together side by side; they bond.
That’s why love is often called chemistry— when you combine certain elements, they combine together to create a new unified whole.
Signs of Spiritual Connection
Spiritual connections are usually perceived on a much deeper level. Once sparked, you feel closer to the person in question, the way you feel about your family and other permanent people in your life. It can be almost like you’ve known them forever on some level (and maybe you have).
Once spiritually connected, you can get really comfortable with each other. You probably notice you have different sides to your personality— you have the side you show your close family/friends and the side you put on in public at large. When a spiritual connection is sparked, you are able to drop that public persona and let the other person get to know the real you.
When you spiritually connect with someone, it usually goes beyond sharing interests, hobbies, religion, political ideologies, education or things like that. When you connect spiritually, you realize you share deeper things— values, principles, a way of looking at the world or a particular point of view.
What a Spiritual Connection Means in a Relationship
You can’t really know when or if you’ll ever spiritually connect to someone. You can never really tell if that “chemical reaction” is going to take place and you can’t know how long it will take. You can only try to get to know each other and give each other a chance.
The relationship doesn’t have to be perfect, even if you don’t lack mutual passion. Just because you’re spiritually connected doesn’t automatically mean a happily ever after.
If and when you do spiritually connect with someone with whom you are also very compatible, the relationship is taken to a whole new level. It’s that spiritual connection that can really drive the passion. When you connect mind, body and soul, you have all the ingredients for success.
Author: Mackenzie W. and Andrew Z.
Imagine living in a culture where sex was sacred and not a sin and sexuality was seen as a positive expression of the life force. This perspective was the norm in many cultures pre-dating Greek and Roman times and these societies date back 30,000 years. Even as late as 3,500 years ago those who lived on the island of Crete recognized sexual pleasure as a wonderful way to connect with spirit, renew the abundance of the land, and unite deeply with one another. In this culture sexuality was widely understood as a pathway to spiritual ecstasy.
The fact is that sexuality and spirituality were never split until well into the first millennium of the Common Era when denial of the body became the popular theology of the day. It may seem outrageous to view sexuality in such lofty terms. Yet, it no longer makes sense to deny the spiritual dimension of our sexuality, as if we had “lower,” physical urges and “higher,” spiritual functions, disconnected from the body.
Before you read on, let me define what I mean by spiritual sex: it is sexual energy that goes beyond physical sensations of pleasure and genital orgasms. It is not limited to genital stimulation and the release of tension through a quick and simple orgasm. When spiritual sex is consciously practiced, there is a quality of “mindfulness,” which is heightened awareness and expanded consciousness. The more cosmic experiences utilizing sexual energy create ecstatic states. The essence of spiritual sex is enhanced awareness, extraordinary inspiration, and a sense of merging with the life force.
For simplicity’s sake, I’ve divided spiritual sex into two levels: the first is conscious loving which is sexual energy that generates intense, loving feelings for the partner. The result is greater partner connection, reinforcing commitment in a long-term relationship through loving communion, enhancing the bond. The second level is spiritual union which is the ultimate expression of sexuality. Often one receives inspiration and illumination that can be translated into divine guidance or simply experienced as pure bliss. These transcendental sexual experiences produce a sense of merging with the source of energy and losing physical boundaries during orgasm. It is often described as “being in the moment of boundless bliss.” Many ancient and modern visionary experiences are described as feelings of being “bathed in pure light.” It is cosmic orgasm, the direct experience of the self as pure energy, in union with a divine source. This level of spiritual sex may occur without a partner and even without any physical stimulation.
Many of you intuitively know the link between spirituality and sexuality through direct experience. One woman, I’ll call Carrie, related the following; “At the moment of orgasm I knew that I was in a great, golden light and I experienced myself as transparent, luminous energy. I saw seven star-like, golden, swirling points that lined up in my body. I did not know about the chakras at the time but later I discovered that that’s what I saw. My energy centers looked like radiant golden lights in my body.” What she had visualized was the life force freely flowing through all seven energy centers that were illuminated and energized by her orgasm. Many people who become interested in spiritual sex have had initial spontaneous ecstatic experiences such as Carrie’s.
If any of you have had an experience with something you might have called sexual ecstasy or spiritual sex you are in good company. Sex researcher and therapist Gina Ogden launched a study in cooperation with New Woman Magazine in 1999. More than 1,400 women responded. She found that 91% of women over 40 said that they had experienced sexual ecstasy or spiritual sex. Clearly, many women are having such experiences and are willing to talk about them. We are on a new frontier of research which brings in the so-called paranormal as part of eroticism.
The descriptions of sexual ecstasy sound quite similar to near death experiences in some ways. They described experiences such as “feelings of oneness with the universe during orgasm,” having out of body travel while making love, weeping with the joy of sexual bliss, being enveloped with a loving light, and touching souls with the partner. My own spiritual sex experience was a most compelling direct encounter with universal healing energy, and there were moments of boundless, timeless existence in “light/energy.”
These stories are also similar to descriptions of ecstatic, religious transformations described in writings by revered historical figures. The common themes in near-death encounters, religious transformations and cosmic orgasms are descriptions of extraordinary light, luminous colors, loss of the sense of a physical body and merging with life force energy. There are also common descriptions of seeing the past and future, traveling across time and space or overwhelming feelings of pure love.
Since sexual energy is the source of our connection to the life force, the benefits to physical, emotional, and mental health are obvious. Developing conscious rituals and techniques allow you to become more open to such transcendent experiences. It prepares you to be receptive to the possibility of connecting in higher states of awareness from peak sexual moments.
If you choose to practice spiritual union with a partner, you will need to communicate clearly with each other about your expectations. It is important to recognize that your experiences of transcendence will be unique from your partner’s. However, it is helpful to feel a conscious bond with your partner. You will need to foster the psychological mindset of healing and mutual empowerment in a setting that honors the partner as divine.
Author: Linda E. Ph.D.
There have been many thoughts on sleeping throughout time. Whether it is just a relaxing state of delta & REM sleep or, possibly a souls journey to other dimensions.We are going to discuss the thoughts of soul travel for now.
Have you ever noticed that when you go without sleep, you feel the dire consequences in your life force? In other words, you feel lifeless. Understand it is not the lack of sleep as you so think, but rather, the lack of activity by your spirit in the truest and freest realm of expression.
Many claim we actually travel to other worlds/dimensions as we sleep.Those worlds are just as real as this one, that we perceive ourselves to be in now. Not only do you enter these other realities continually , but you have entirely different and often surprising relationships, to people you come in contact with here,while awake! In another place, in another time,they are someone else completely different,and you, while in that reality, are not the same as you are here. There are people that you visit and have quite an extensive relationship with at other levels. It is also possible to visit with whom you consider dead in this world, but who are indeed alive in another world!
Dreams are not dreams as you think. Dreams are other places, just as this place, is also a dream in another place. Dreams are such that even the most preposterous one exists as a reality in another time.
What you remember upon waking up, is only a fraction,of all that you have encountered. There are a few built in safeguards aimed to protect us as far as remembering though. We cannot possibly remember everything from another reality and still function properly in this reality, it is basically too much for the brain to comprehend, so this is why we do not always remember every dream moment to moment.
It is important to remember that we are a frequency within our bodies, and we exist in all time, stretching and reaching out through eternity.We do not remain stationary in this time only. Remember that your physical body does, but your soul/spirit/frequency exists all at once in all dimensions. It is in our dream world that we experience those multitudes of dimensions… and it is these that we call dreams……
Author: Starseed TA
There are many names for the God Force. This force is known by all beings on all planets, by one name or another. The name by which you refer to the God Force is not important. In this message, we will refer to it as the God Force or Prime Creator. The God Force is not of a sex or gender, but is all. All physical beings are part of the God Force. There are simply various degrees of awareness of the connection.
In the beginning there was only Prime Creator. Prime Creator was ever knowing, ever growing, expanding, always changing, questioning, thinking and being. At some point, Prime Creator began to think heavily upon one thought. Prime Creator had always existed. There was no remembered beginning, and no end to the existence of Prime Creator. Questioning induces growth and change, and Prime Creator began to question his existence and beginning. This led to a decision to expand further to enhance growth and learning potential. To best do this, Prime Creator decided to divide into many parts. Each part would remain connected to Prime Creator. Each part would have full communication with Prime Creator. At the same time, each new part would have full freedom to grow and explore whatever path was attractive to it. This would allow Prime Creator to grow and learn at a more rapid pace, because each part would be separate, yet one.
The experiences and knowledge gained by each part would in time come back to Prime Creator, when that part had completed all it desired to learn and experience. Each part would be called a Oversoul. As each was a part of the God Force, it would have ability and power to create, as long as it kept it’s connection with the God Force.
Prime Creator began the separation of parts of himself, lovingly and joyfully. There were great expectations, and excitement at the variety of knowledge and experiences which could be available! New parts were formed from all areas of Prime Creator, as there were many variations of activity, questioning and types of energy within Prime Creator. These first created were group energies, or large energy portions called oversouls. There were many oversouls. Each would eventually develop into a number of individual spirits, or souls which were like in energy, interest and being. The parts, or individual spirits, which were created of energy closest to one other were of course the most alike, even within the oversoul. The oversoul groups tended to be composed of individual spirits who were similar in what they desired to learn, and how they wanted to go about learning. At first, the oversouls simply were.
They learned that they were capable of independent thought, of communicating with Prime Creator, and with each other within the oversoul, and with other oversouls. They began to realize that they were capable of movement, and change. They realized that they could create thought forms and experiment with them and that was one method of learning.
Prime Creator decided to create physical life, and physical forms, to allow new levels of experience and growth for all parts of the God Force energy. It was decided that twelve universes would be created. These would be created with intent for the oversouls to go to these to learn, grow and gain many experiences. Each Universe would have a special emphasis, to create a certain type of knowledge. The oversouls would be free to go to the Universe that most appealed to them, and there they could work together to create whatever physical forms appealed to them. They could learn and experience all that they wished. Each Universe would exist until each Oversoul or individual spirit portion of each oversoul had learned and experienced all it wished to learn in that universe.
When all knowledge was experienced and completed by all in that universe, it would return to Prime Creator. Prime Creator would then possess all knowledge contained within that universe. Twelve Universes were created by Prime Creator. At the point in “time” where you currently exist, one universe has completed and returned to Prime Creator. This could be considered the first Universe, as the first created was the first completed. The Universe we will now focus on is the one that you live in, which will be called the fourth Universe. This is a free will Universe. This means that all is allowed. In a free will Universe, there is no judgment, no good, no bad…all is experience, all is learning. There were no rules or restrictions placed upon those in that universe by Prime Creator. There would be no control or judgment of choices or decisions made by them as to areas of growth or experience desired.
As oversouls were drawn to the Universes which had most interest for them, many oversouls found themselves being drawn to the same areas in the same universes. They decided to work together and learn to create together. This is how many of the planets and star systems in your universe were formed. With the help of Prime Creator, and his blessing, many planets were formed. On these planets, many different life forms were then created.
As the oversouls learned to create, several things began to happen. The oversouls began to act, think and exist more as individual energies, within the group energy than as group energy. Portions of these oversouls, individual spirits, began to think of themselves very highly…not as a part of Prime Creator, but as superior to Prime Creator. Some were excessively proud of the abilities to create and allowed themselves to lose the realization that all power comes from the connection with Prime Creator. These began to separate from the oversouls, and become individual beings. They began to drift away from the connection with Prime Creator.
Some consciously decided that they could learn more alone, without the connection to the oversoul. These became individual spirits and found themselves changing as they lost the connection with Prime Creator. They no longer had the abilities to create life as they had before. They began to forget the abilities they once had and gravitated to planets they had created, or helped to create. Many of them took up residence in some of the life forms which they had helped to create on these planets.
As life forms were created on many different planets, many oversouls began to experiment with physical life themselves. This required a separation of energies into separate spirit energies, to allow each the opportunity to experience physical realities. In time they came to consider themselves more the “physical” self than the spirit self. This was all allowed and encouraged, as all is growth and experience. Others of the oversouls stayed close to Prime Creator and continued to create beautiful planets and life forms of very high frequency. Thus, there were a great variety of planets and life forms of many types created in time. The majority of oversouls, at some point in their development, chose to experiment and learn from physical life and all that could be learned through physical life.
As many planets and galaxies in your Universe were created, Prime Creator watched the creation, and the development of the oversouls. It was evident that much experience and growth was occurring rapidly through physical experience. With this knowledge, it was decided to begin a special project. A group of oversouls were selected from all areas of the universe. Representatives of each of these oversouls were called to help with this project, if separation into individual spirit portions had occurred, but the connection to Prime Creator maintained. For those oversouls that had not yet separated, and were chosen to help with the project, that entire oversoul energy was called upon. From these selected energies, Prime Creator asked for the creation of a very special planet. This planet was to be of great beauty and variety. Samples of the DNA of life forms that had been created on each planet in the entire universe were to be brought to this planet to create similar life forms. These life forms would all exist on the one planet.
The planet was to be called Terra; although later it became Earth. It was to be a happy place where oversouls, spirits from this universe, and other universes could visit. It was to be similar to what you now know as a library. A living Library. A spirit could visit the planet, watch the life forms, choose one to experience, and enter the physical form. The experience could be as long or as short as desired. When the life form had been experienced, another could be chosen to experience. Thus, you could experience being a frog, a cat, an elephant or a tree, and see what the reality is like for each. At any time you would be free to leave, and to return at any time.
Human forms were designed to be caretakers of the planet. They were also to be used by spirits, to allow that form to be experienced briefly. A special type of ego, which would be responsible for the physical function and life “support” of the human form was created. The ego was to be responsible for taking care of the human form and care of the planet, when the form was not in use by a visiting spirit. When being visited by a spirit, the ego was to continue body maintenance, yet allow the spirit to control of all else. All life forms were planned to be peacefully coexistent.
All did not go exactly as planned. Many oversouls and visitors became very enamored of physical life on this planet, the wide variety of physical forms available for experience, and the variety of physical terrain and environments available in different areas of the planet. They began to forget that they could leave the physical forms, or to choose not to leave. More began to stay in the forms, especially the human forms, which were very well liked. Many began to forget their connection to the God Force, and began to consider themselves Eartheans.
There were other unplanned for considerations. Due to the large variety of life forms and creation that had occurred on the planet, there was a large amount of freely available creation energy, or universal life-force. Therefore, it became a very popular place for many “visitors” to come to work with and develop their skills of creation. Many of the original life forms were altered and changed dramatically, not only physically, but the energies they had been originally given to allow them to peacefully coexist were also changed by experimenting visitors.
When created, Terra, was ninth dimensional, higher frequency than many planets in the universe. This was due to the original intent for the planet to remain a pure center of learning, to be shared by all. All physical forms were created to be eternal, with no life cycle needed, due to their original purpose. As changes occurred with life forms, such as spirit attachment to the forms, and their sequential lack of willingness to leave the planet, the frequency of the planet was lowered. The plan for the planet was altered according to need. This meant that a decision was made to allow this to be a planet for physical life experience and life cycle experience. The name was changed from Terra to Earth, and frequency was lowered to a sixth dimensional level. Over time, as a result of many changes which followed, it eventually was lowered to a third dimensional level.
Many other changes were added at the time of the first lowering of frequency. The addition of a life cycle and cycle of reincarnation was made to allow for greater experience. It was felt that greater growth would occur through the reincarnation cycle already being used on other planets of the universe. It was felt that through this cycle, there would be a greater likelihood of eventual reconnection to the God Force, and it would also allow greater opportunities for others to partake of the experiences available on Earth. Sleep, the need for food intake for survival, the creation of male and female gender, reproduction through sexual intercourse, childbirth, and the death experience were among the additions.
The creation of higher selves, addition of spiritual guides, and adding of the use of multidimensionality also occurred then for those who had not previously developed in these ways. Those who had previously experienced physical life on other planets had already begun to work with higher selves, spiritual guides, and multidimensionality.There were many who had not began to experience on this level, for those these additions were made.
After these changes, a large number of beings from other planets began coming to Earth to form settlements. The majority came for research and exploration of creation abilities, or for learning about the developing Eartheans. Some came to have the opportunity to influence and affect the development of the new planet Earth. This continued for much of Earth’s history. The adding of these outside energies, genetic structures and changes which these added influences brought, and the wide variety of planetary teachings and cultures which would then affect Earth and the beings who lived upon her changed much. The original plans were allowed to be altered, and the planet was watched to see what developments would occur through allowing free will exploration of all involved.
Author: Jo Admidon